So very true :/ And yeah, I discovered that about Ohtori.nu too. Depresses me that the biggest Utena fansite on the internet is run by Akio fans. Who have thus clearly missed the entire point of the series. x( sigh. I’m so glad you agree
Even TV tropes, home of sexist trolls, gets that Akio is scum.
I mean seriously.
It astounds me how far people will go to excuse attractive male characters behavior, and then damn female characters for far more minor offenses.